Today let’s chat about the age old concept: Work Life Balance.

Listen, we cannot be everything to everybody so quit beating yourself up because you’re falling short trying to bring home the bacon, fry it up, and keep your partner happy in and out of bedroom.

Most women are using outside factors to shape what a successful career and home life means to them.  Here are three things you can do to love your life flow:

Get rid of the idea of balance. If you are waiting for the proverbial work life scales to balance, it simply isn’t going to happen. At any given moment in our lives something will require more attention than something else. Maybe you have a deadline at work, a huge dinner party or you’re scaling a business. In life it’s not either or, instead focus your energy to create a life of rhythm and harmony. The thought of it makes me feel better already.

Start with you. Many things will be vying for your attention and how you handle them is key to creating harmony in your world. Being able to show up as the best version of you is key to harmony in your world. Creating a daily practice to connect to your inner core will make everything right in your world.

Embrace your beautiful chaos and find your unique rhythm. Stop trying to do it like your mother did and simply do it like you do.